Clergy and Caregivers

"So, you are getting some calls/complaints from your members in regard to their concerns about a man who is attending church dressed as a woman. What are you to do? Do you ask him to leave and not return until he is dressed in appropriate attire? Do you forbid him to use the women's rest room? How do you plan to minister in compassion and genuine care for his soul, while not rejecting him in his own re-created state? Do you instruct your members to extend the same welcome to him as you would the drug addict, homosexual, or alcoholic? Just what is the protocol you will use with him and his family?